CHALLENGES FACED BY A MOM…..

        I never knew about the deceiving challenges as I was stepping into this new endeavor .I just took it for granted that it would be the same as any other endeavor. But lo! The challenges which clustered my way was creeping slowly in my clean mind depleting it with never–ending queries.

The Herculean task of installing all the good qualities in my newly conceptualized creation was not at all easy. It was not that I never loved my new post, neither that it was forced to me but still I was in a dilemma that what should I do next?

But it was proved to be very smooth in the very beginning when my partner in love to started taking the responsibilities himself….It really feels good when you see Him working for the kid. It boosts up your motherhood and enables you to dedicate your whole time and energy for your kid…. And now there was no looking back but the boulders which  always curbed my move were....

* If your child is thin - Why don' t you feed her?

And this question always demotivates me as to why should I not feed my daughter.But if she is not gaining in weight then how am I responsible? It is not that I am eating away all her food...

*If your child says "NO" for something- You are teaching her to say "NO" for everything

Now why should I teach my child to be negative ,It was also shocking for me to hear such thing from her for the first time but again I am blamed for it.

*If your child throws tantrums than-I think you behaved the same in your childhood

Now my mother would have never seen me behaving in such a way as my child behaves but may be some basic instincts may have been repeated...But how does that signify that I had inculcated it..?

*If she argues with elders - This she has inherited from your family

But how is it possible..?it is easy to blame others and shrug off your shoulders .Specially when you blame it on another family.But how can anybody influence your child...?

All such questions I had confronted throughout a decade but never for a second did I get distracted from my new venture .And now today when it is the time to count the fruits than all come and try to claim their contribution in the child's upbringing. This demotivates you to the core .....as to if the child is soft hearted,  goodnatured , then she inherited it from our family but if she is argumentative than she had inherited it from your family. But anyhow we as mothers always face such challenges...and even successfully come out of it .....
SO, AM PROUD TO BE A MOTHER.....(dedicated to all the mothers)